RE: [Discuss-sudbury-model] Parents on campus

From: Eli Roth <eliroth_at_cwo.com>
Date: Tue Nov 28 17:39:00 2006

Why not simply have visiting parents subject to the school meeting's
control as any member of the school meeting would be? Not all parents
who might spend time at the school can run for staff due to inability to
make the necessary time commitment.

Elizabeth

-----Original Message-----
From: discuss-sudbury-model-admin_at_sudval.org
[mailto:discuss-sudbury-model-admin_at_sudval.org] On Behalf Of Dr. Evan
Hughes
Sent: Tuesday, November 28, 2006 2:13 PM
To: discuss-sudbury-model_at_sudval.org
Subject: [Discuss-sudbury-model] Parents on campus

     There is a larger issue here regarding parents participating in
anything on the campus
that extends further then the individual parent/child bond and that is
the *other* children.
     Sudbury students are participating together as students and are
subject to social
ramifications and rules. Staff are VOTED for and can be kicked out or
invited in by school
meeting members (staff and students.) In short, school meeting members
*govern* other
school meeting members. Visiting parents are not a part of the system.
They are not voted
for, do not go through an admission process, have no responsibility
other then to 'their'
child only.
     And just in case you where thinking it, there is absolutely no way
to be present in an
environment like a sudbury school and have your presence not felt,
especially as an adult.
      If my child where attending a school which allowed parents to
participate at will I would
be nervous, because there are no checks and balances for this. As
students, they would feel
a weird powerlessness associated with another parents presence in no
time because again,
they are outside the system.
     If parents REALLY want to be that close to their children (I have
no idea weather it's a
positive or negative) then run for staff. Become subject to student
judgment as to weather
or not you are fit to be in the sacred space of the students.

Evan

 

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