Re: [Discuss-sudbury-model] The problem is balance . . .

From: Tom Hall <>
Date: Sun Mar 2 19:46:00 2003

Heidi wrote:
>Yes, I agree. Peter's answer was most helpful. We're trying to find a
>balance. In fact, we're going to be having regular family meetings,
>modeled after Sudbury school meetings, as read about on the website. Maybe
>not weekly, but at least two times per month. Fully democratic. No rule
>goes into effect without unanimity. Well, with only five people a simple
>majority is...well, we parents are going to be voted down, eh? LOL So that
>family life doesn't get overrun by individual lives.

One thing that you might want to consider is that the democratic processes
that are so necessary and useful in a large organization like a school, may
not be so necessary or useful for a small group like a family. TCS and
Common Preference Parenting may give you some ideas of a different way of
parenting that's much more in line with the SVS ideas about autonomy and
non-coercive learning when you are dealing with a family environment.

Here's some links, if you're interested:

>Well, my brain IS sizzling, I must say. lots to think through, here!

Keep sizzling! It's very inspiring and exciting. My thanks for all the
conversation that you've inspired here.

Tom Hall
Received on Sun Mar 02 2003 - 19:45:51 EST

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