Re: DSM: Re: Is Sudbury not "Life lived, period"?

From: David Rovner (
Date: Tue Jan 29 2002 - 04:49:53 EST

Lielle, this belongs to the "old discussion" of Altruism and Egoism (Selfishness).

"The child is not the mere creature of the State."

David Rovner -
Haifa 34675.
Favors ending government involvement in education,
working for the Advancement of Democratic Schools
& the Freedom of Learning, Individual Rights and Ayn
Rand's philosophy in Israel.

  ----- Original Message -----
  Sent: Tuesday, January 29, 2002 3:22 AM
  Subject: Re: DSM: Re: Is Sudbury not "Life lived, period"?

  In a message dated 01/28/2002 4:06:35 PM Pacific Standard Time, writes:

    if Sudbury is "Life lived,
    period", then it should surely contain ALL that life has to offer --
    INCLUDING unsolicited help.

  I'm new to this list and am enjoying this back-and-forth. "To help or not to help". It's interesting because I do think this is a social phenomenon that shows up in all of us in one way or another. And I think it's important to look at what "help" implies versus "service". When we are offering help, especially unsolicited, we are proud and superior. Often this creates an unnessesary resistance. Think about how this applies to where you do offer help now. You've all heard/uttered the phrase, "I was only trying to help". Being in service to someone is coming from gratitude. You never hear the phrase, "I was only trying to serve."

  Lielle Arad


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