Hi Joe, and all,
How is my perspective limited at SVS? Well, sometimes I go on campus to
look for my kids at pick up time, and I often go in to look through lost and
found. I MIGHT hear something from another parent whose kids tell them
what's going on at school; but mine don't. So news on what's going on at
school is very scanty. I occasionally look at the bulletin board; and I have
never seen anything of an altruistic nature on the board or elsewhere.
Never heard of anything either. I do get a sense that kids care deeply
about the school as a whole. I guess I pick up on this from what I hear at
the Assembly meetings,school performances, and social events. But I can't
tell how they feel about each other, other than their individual group of
friends. My kids certainly don't know everyone's names. They often have
trouble even remembering staff names! Jesse doesn't even know the names of
kids he plays with some days. I guess I'm thinking of community as a sort
of big extended family. Not quite the depth of love, of course, but in that
vein. Maybe this is too big an expectation. Also, SVS is now over 200
kids. That changes things. I'm sure the bigger the school the longer it
takes to get to know everyone and have these feelings. I was mostly curious
about the altruistic stuff. See a lot of it in public schools and I was
wondering if it was only because it is adult initiated, and if that type of
role modelling is necessary. Your theory is interesting. Not sure what to
think of it. Seems kids are very egocentric in early years, to me.
----- Original Message -----
From: Joe Jackson <firstname.lastname@example.org>
Sent: Friday, December 07, 2001 2:14 PM
Subject: DSM: RE: sense of community
> What's up Ann.
> > How do Sudbury kids , in
> > your observations, experience community at school? Who tends
> > to be included in that
> > community- just their fellow students and staff, or
> > parents,as well?
> Yes, all three.
> > Do
> > parents feel it?
> It depends on who you ask. I feel like when parents walk through the
> school they are warmly received and part of things, however I know some
> parents complain that they feel like they aren't a part of "it", "it"
> being a sense of community or belonging or whatever. I think that's
> entirely dependent on the expectations of the parent and what
> "community" means to them. That's why I can't answer you first question
> up there.
> > Is their any altruistic activity? (I think it was
> > Joe that mentioned helping out local fire victims.) If so,
> > is it initiated by kids or adults?
> The fire victims thing was initiated by Romey. It was her neighbors.
> Yes, there is altruistic activity. Last year the students put together
> this big revue production-type thing and went around to a bunch of
> old-folks homes and did it. They were really into it.
> They also had this big kitty-rescue drama last month where there were
> these dying kittens under the school. They got a big trap and trapped
> them one by one and nursed them back to health and dressed them in
> little outfits and they all survived and were all adopted into homes of
> students. That's your feel-good movie of the year right there.
> Also, lots and lots of kids worked hard on the construction of the
> school in summer '98. That counts.
> > How do you think caring
> > about the world outside your own little one (ie school,
> > family) is learned?
> I think that's something kids are born with. Don't laugh, that's really
> what I think. Kids are the biggest humanitarians on the planet. I
> think sometimes they unlearn it while growing up, sometimes not, and
> sometimes they relearn it. I know the follow-on question is probably
> "does the model help preserve that which Joe considers the altruistic
> instinct within kids" and the answer is I have no clue. I think most
> public school kids are pretty altruistic, too. I don't know if that has
> anything to do with the type of schooling.
> > Sorry. Lotta questions together, but all related. Like I said
> > before, can't tell much from my perspective at SVS.
> How do you think your perspective at SVS is limited?
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