Re: DSM: Re: Re: SM in Ontario

From: CindyK (
Date: Thu May 17 2001 - 10:39:11 EDT

Thanks so much for the advice, Mimsy. It seems like a no-BS get to the business approach but I guess that's what's needed. I am learning to outgrow my Mrs. Nice Guy, wishy-washy approach. I like the idea of a monetary commitment. I know that some of them won't. But that's the point right? :-)


  ----- Original Message -----
  Sent: Wednesday, May 16, 2001 9:40 PM
  Subject: Re: DSM: Re: Re: SM in Ontario

  Dear Cindy,

  I apologize for my ignorance about some of what may have gone on in the last
  week or so on the list. My email program is not being a loyal friend these
  days! But I do know one thing: people in your tiny initial startup group of
  5 who are negative (your word) will make it harder for you to get a school
  started, not easier. Jettison them. Figure out what you think are criteria
  for founder's group members, and make sure the desire to create a particular
  type of school (think seriously, and in detail here) is a largely important
  criterion. Hangers-on can sap your energy and kill the vitality of the two
  people who know what they want. You don't have to be democratic now -- you
  and the other person (or both if it comes to that) who know what you want can
  just walk away. Also, is there some money something going on here? Like a
  small fee to be in this illustrious group in order to keep it going? That
  usually gets rid of people who are hanging on for some obscure social or
  psychological reason only they can begin to know, but are not really
  interested in the same enterprise as you. Now it is yours; make sure you get
  what you want!



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